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I was having this conversation with one of my friends the other day and he says he feels lonely and this sometimes gets him frustrated and hampers his actions towards others. Now, according to him why he feels lonely and depressed at times is because of lack of a female companion or lets put it this way he wants a girl friend, a girl on whom he can rely and make him complete.

I thought men are supposed to be stronger and girls are the ones who are emotional, sensitive and need someone to care for them.
I didn’t know men could get so vulnerable. I am sorry if I offended any male gender. I am trying my best not to generalize. From what I’ve seen most men associate better with their own sex, they bond better with guy friends on an emotional level and have more fun in a group of guys than in a group having girls too. Whereas most girls always like someone to look up to.

It’s a very typical trait observed in most men doing engg or those working the first few years of their careers. They feel lonely, bored …or what I don’t know they all want a woman they can love, care for, to be the anchor when in distress. Everyone whether male or female wants to love or be loved. But the desperation. …Why, why do men get frustrated and feel lonely over not having a girl or finding the love of their life.
Its not this particular friend of mine…there are so many of them in and around me. I ve read blogs of where guys write about how to get a girl, what love is like what can it be.trust me their imagination has no bounds…what kind of a girl one would want goes on and on…its bcum like the talk of the town.. Where the young generation is so hooked on to this topic called love. Even movies like RDB don have much effect, like a fragrance lingered for sometime but then gone off with time. The flavor in demand [i] is always love.

Do men want a girlfriend because they feel they ve almost achieved what they wanted to be..Where they want to be, and now its time to find a companion who they can settle with or is it like a status symbol or a trend to be followed …” look I got gurl” and she’s HOT, BEAUTIFUL, PRETTY…goes the order. I don’t know for how many brains matter more.
I don’t deny for many it jus happens they find the right girl at the right time. But what about the others…why such an urge, its like the daily talk..”Yaar when do I find my girl”.

I really want to know whether my assumptions are right or wrong. All my life I ve been hearing I ve judged men and I ve judged them wrong.









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